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[quote=Anonymous]OP, i think you made the right decision to go with the best qualified candidate, in spite of how foolishly your husband may have acted. You could perhaps talk to him in advance of her start date about your guys' approach as professional employers, and how you guys should collectively handle dealing with her (giving her clear expectations on her work, giving her the tools to be successful, and giving her constructive feedback on things she's doing well or things she can improve on, etc.). Reinforcing that this is a professional relationship and that you want her to be a wonderful caregiver to your child, and that she should be comfortable in your home and around your family should be a helpful reminder to him. Just be consistent. If he continues to check her out, I would pull him aside and mention it to him, and say something like, "let's not make her uncomfortable, and by the way, wth?" and then let it go. [/quote]
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