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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I feel for you, really I do. It really hurts when you are excluded and lied to by people who are family and who you thought loved you the same way you love them. And even worse, don't respect your husband. 
You will need to address this issue sooner rather than later.  Otherwise it will just fester and you will have a huge blowup and then they will say you have overreacted. 
Don't wait until the next big holiday.

(Hugs)
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And don't leave out your mother.  She instigated this whole mess.  Maybe she thought she was going to spare your feelings should you find out later, but it sure sounds like she told knowing full well it was going to be hurtful.

I would just tell the sisters that you heard from your mother about the vacation and that while you realize your family are not their favorite type of housemates, you still would have liked to have been invited or informed in such a way that you could have made nearby plans.  Especially since there were kids involved you can say that you value times to get them together.

Then just leave the ball in their court.  They may have excuses so just counter with what's done and done and you just wanted to be open that you were hurt.  [/quote]

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