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[quote=Anonymous]She doesn't believe how truly bad it is. Period.

Married my soulmate 17 years ago. Totally hot stuff.  Very compatible , loving--put off having kids. We had some kinky adventures. We had the kids 6-7 years into marriage and I went into mom-mode. Passion slowly faded over the years.  I just figured it was normal and we come back.  We still had sec weekly but my libido was bottomed out. I wasn't into it.  Whenever we had drinks together thus past year he told me we had to change something much like you feel.  I was angry too and basically felt like 'grow the fuck up '.  Things came to a head when he stayed out one night .

We immediately went to counseling together and blew the kid off everything.  I had desires , anger, longings I ALS had repressed.  We had become more like roommates and barely had loving exchanges.  The minute we started talking the emotions started coming back.  That first week we had wild sex constantly and felt so close.  We started really listening and making loving gestures.  The counselor worked with us to understand where things started to decay.  It's only been 2 months and we have been moved to monthly appointments--started twice a week first week, then weekly, biweekly and now monthly.

Marriage is the best it's been in ages. Kids are 6 and. 9.

We are now planning to meet a woman for a night of fun.

Communicate.  It sounds, like me , your wife doesn't realize how dire the situation has become.  Good luck. [/quote]

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