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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All I'm saying is what women do and what they say are not generally in sync.

For instance, what's the "next level" with guy 1?  Physical intimacy?  Because if that's a yes, then guy 2 and guy 3 already had a taste of "next level" before the guy you supposedly like.

Now, you can deny till the end of time to guy 1 any of this stuff, should you two become exclusive, but you will know (and we will know, arbitrarily and anecdotally) that you are not truthful with him.  Any time he brings up a story to another male, friend or boy growing up, that women fuck guys arbitrarily but hold out for the ones they like, you best stay quiet and not argue that as a lie. [/quote]

The "next level," in my opinion, is exclusive dating. There's nothing to deny to Guy 1. Yes, she's dating other people. If that's a deal breaker for him, they can either quit dating or become exclusive.

Believe it or not, adults can have casual sexual encounters or relationships and it is not the end of the world. It's foolish to generalize and say that "women fuck people arbitrarily but hold out for the ones they like," because not all women behave the same way, and neither do all men. And different people do things differently at different times in their lives.

Rushing a physical relationship often isn't a good idea if you're interested in a long-term relationship. BOTH men and women sometimes say, "I really like this guy/girl and don't want to mess it up, so we're taking it slow." Although there are plenty of great relationships that start off with a one-night stand, general dating etiquette is to wait if you're looking for something long-term.[/quote]

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