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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recently had a birthday, so I've been celebrating a lot. One night I had too much to drink and couldn't have sex due to being too drunk.[/quote]

You need to address the drinking.  Normal is celebrating one night.  By your own admission, you were "celebrating a lot".  If you celebrate so much that you self describe it as "a lot" and drink so much that you "wouldn't have remembered it" then you are drinking too much.  You should not be drinking so much that you have difficulties remember the previous night more than once in a blue moon.

[quote] We talked about the next day and he said, I could have raped you and you wouldn't have remembered it. Then laughed. I'm so upset by this and he seems to not think it's a problem. He's also aware that I was sexually abused in college. He thinks it's a silly reason to break things off, but I'm starting to not see him as boyfriend material although we have similar beliefs on certain things and he's educated with a good career. I feel like he doesn't get me. [/quote]

You know, I could have raped you and you wouldn't have remember it.
--Yes, and I could have gone all Lorena Bobbit on you and that would have just ruined our relationship if you couldn't perform anymore.

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