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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, don't get caught up in the lawyer b-s that so many are advocating. It will be expensive and confrontational and you may not even end up ahead.

Go with the suggestions that other PPs have made about using a mediator. Be aware that there is a lot of animosity towards men on this forum by women who have an agenda. You want to ensure you are treated fairly and getting every single dollar that you are entitled to is less important than making it a non-confrontational divorce which will just rack up massive legal fees.

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HAHAHAHAHA. Hi, OP's husband -- or someone else who's trying to pull a similar fast one on his soon-to-be ex-wife.

OP, he has offered you such incredibly rotten deal that you can't fail to do better by going the full lawyer route. If he had offered you something halfway fair, there might be hope that mediation would work. But he is so out to lunch regarding what he owes you… Don't bother. [/quote]

Another frustrated woman who likes to just create animosity and confrontation.

OP, it may turn out that you need a lawyer but before you get to that point see whether a mediator can help. A good lawyer will cost you $500 an hour and whether you end up paying it or it comes out of your joint assets, it will end up impacting what you get in the end. If your husband also retains a lawyer which he would inevitably do if you retain one, then you are looking at spending $1000 an hour between you both and that adds up fast.[/quote]

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