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[quote=Anonymous]OP again.  Also, I really didn't want to give the impression that he doesn't want joint custody.  He really loves them, and would never agree to anything  in which he would go two weeks without seeing them.  I don't want that either because they love him.  I would be devasted to watch them waiting to see dis interested daddy.  My reasons for wanting sole custody haveless to do with him being absent, and more his lack of ability to parent rather than be a buddy.  He does not set or enforce rules, routines, or excercise much common sense.  Both of my kids have issues that make this particularly important.  Also, his judgement can be lacking in a perhaps unintentionable, but potentially dangerous way.  He isn't exactly neglectful, but he does tend to do what is convenient for him.  I also think it would be very difficult on my kids to go back and forth...not saying it doesn't  work for many people it would be hard for them as individuals.  Both have a tough time transitioning and making changes for different reasons.

Thanks again for all the advice and support.  I will call that lawyer, and figure this out.  I am really glad I asked!  [/quote]

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