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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks everybody! I actually talked him up to $1500 from $1000 which is what he said he could afford to pay.  It isn't that the process hasn't  been frustrating.  I am angry.  I don't like fighting, but I can hold my own.  I don't know that many seperated or divorced people (certainly not anyone I feel comfortable asking questions to),  so I think I was more clueless than anything else.  Also, he tried to convince me that I was greedy and crazy when I questioned things like alimony and retirement.  I can probably get some money from family for a lawyer if I had to...any ball park figures out there?  $275 at how many hours?  Then if I need to how much to retain them?  I was thinking if I had to go to my family for money that it would be better to scrape together a down payment for a new, more suitable place for our new life.  Interest rates are low, and it might settle the matter more peacefully.  The house really is a logistical and financial disaster.  Needs a lot of tlc that I doubt I will have the time or money to attend.  I checked what we still owe and our neighbors sold for about $40000 more than amount (same house in better shape).  I will definately get an intial consult with though.  Thanks so much for the encouragement, and thoughts.  It really gave me a much needed boost!  [/quote]

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