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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - do not listen to these women who are telling you are wrong!  My GOD this board is filled with the most horrifying people (yet sadly I am addicted to it - it's like a train wreck - I simply cannot look away)!

Call me a Pollyanna but I don't believe most people behave this way (I mean as they do on DCUM) as they do in other parts of the country.  I just spoke with my best friend from college who is married with three kids - wonderful husband, lives in a small town and I had to tell her about this forum!  Well I am sure she is reading right now because she couldn't believe how obnoxious, mean, catty and down right ignorant some people are on this forum.

I'll admit I've made some snide remarks to various posts but it's usually in self defense if someone lashes out at me.  What your friend did was wrong.  Did she cross the boundaries of friendship by confessing to you?  Probably not.  Did you cross boundaries by posting so many details about what she told you here?   Maybe.   Would I have done the same thing?  Probably.  I am not a fan of cheaters.  Especially ones that gloat.

Still, put your big girl panties on, talk to her and cancel your trip to the Cape and book something else.  There are better women to be friends with even though you wouldn't guess it by looking at most of the responses to your post.  You DID get SOME level headed responses though!!! So carry on.  Ugh, the more and more I think about your friend the more I just SMH.  Sorry, OP.[/quote]

Sorry - I don't see how how you call other posters "catty" and then make the definitive remark that "what your friend did was wrong." Where in anything that OP wrote was her friend "gloating"?  And then you have the audacity to tell OP there are better people to be friends with when, in fact, you really know next to nothing about their friendship. Sounds pretty catty. [/quote]

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