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[quote=Anonymous]If the stepkid's mom was the one with more money and OP's kids had fewer trips or gifts while stepkid's had more, no one would say a thing. Life can't always be equal. Love should be equal but not possessions and trips. If OP's kids have 8 aunts and uncles buying gifts and stepkid's only have 2, that is just reality. What is wrong with going to visit family when stepkids are not around? They may be going on their own trips with their mother and her family. The most important thing is that they are loved by their father (and have a good relationahip with stepmom, but you can't force love). All of this material stuff is trivial. Dad needs to stand up to biomom. Stepmom needs support and she will likely be more invested whe she feels respected and that she has a role. All of the people that say suck it up - that is ridiculous! Life is too short. Everyone deserves respect. [/quote]
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