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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]adult adoptee here.  I would move to nip this behavior in the bud as soon as possible.  I was never made to feel part of the family that I was adopted into, and as a result, I haven't had much to do with them after I graduated HS[/quote]
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Two of our kids are adopted, and one is of a different race.

My children have endured this hateful behavior off and on for their entire lives.

Whenever the racism has been expressed, I have gone into shock.  My husbands' family is so abusive it blows my mind..[b]..trying to create a strategy to separate[/b].  I feel desperately sorry that my adopted kids are singled out, left out and otherwise treated as not acceptable to those people.

I just want to say how very grateful I am to see the support for the OP here.  Too bad my H never nipped this XXXX in the bud.  Too bad his siblings, SILs and parents are such miserable, F-ing creeps. [/quote]

This a strategy that many unhealthy mean spirited people use -- the adoption is just what they are using in your case. If your kids weren't adopted, they would find something else to be hurtful about.[/quote]

PP, thank you for your observation, which was a genuine consolation--even if it's just the internets![/quote]

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