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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]News flash -  your marriage has been over for years. You are the person raising his child and spending his money. This was a multiyear assignment overseas that could be accompanied and you refused to go? And then all you do is bitch at him about other women? You don't seem to like him much.

[b]When you got married and had kids you formed a family unit. You do things as a unit.[/b] You sound like you married young, get your ideas about marriage from women's magazines, and didn't really consider who was actually standing next to you in your pretty white dress.[b] Either be happy with the paycheck he's sending home or pack your stuff up and move to the assignment. [/b]Or get a divorce and find some other dude who better fits your requirements for a husband. [/quote]

That is what I keep trying to tell him. We are a family, but he is always thinking about himself and his career. I was twenty-six when we married. I have given up everything for him.  I could have much better jobs now had I not moved around early in our marriage. I could have had more children.  Instead, I went for several years, but grew tired of having to quit my jobs all the time.  He has refused to have more kids.  As for his paycheck,  it is laughable.  He thinks that his low six figures is a great salary and refuses to look for something better paying.  Because of this we have constant fights about money.  He just refuses to see things as I do and to appreciate all the sacrifices I make. Just this morning he told me, after I complained about all the unpaid housework and childrearing I did while he was goen and still do now, that he is more than willing to take over any of that from me.  So f**king ungrateful!   I regret marrying the bastard.  What was I thinking when I was younger.  Was his kindness just an act and he was all along just an a**hole?  [/quote]

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