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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But the problem isn't that they don't have enough time as a nuclear family to connect. They have three or four OTHER weeks plus long weekends to connect as a nuclear family unit on vacation, which is more than most other people have even without that extra week at OBX. The problem seems to be that the wife just doesn't want to vacation with her in laws anymore and her husband does, so the wife would like to go to a more chi chi location in order to price out her in laws. But without hurting their feelings!!! It seems like a really privileged perspective to me. [/quote] +1 The OP should probably just suck it up and leave everything status quo. Since she does take other nice vacations including long skiing weekends with her nuclear family, it would probably seem really selfish to her DH if she tries to exclude the extended family for the annual 4th of July OBX vacation. FWIW, plenty of people take vacations in those large rentals with just their nuclear family and don't worry about trying to fill it up with other family members. [/quote]
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