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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=NOVATransplant]Sounds like they wanted to see their new grandbaby and you couldn't be bothered to check your phone.  Sorry, you sound kind of bitchy[/quote]

I tend to agree with this statement only because I come from a very open family and [b]we are accustomed to being in everyone's business[/b]. I also very much appreciate how excited they are to be grandparents and they can't get enough of their new grandchild.  It wouldn't have bothered me and not only would I be thankful for an impromptu sitter, I am not so entitled that I wouldn't want to grant them every opportunity to enjoy their grandkid. My advice - try and see if from their point of view.[/quote]

Yes, OP's ILs are accustomed to that as well.

OP, OTOH, is *not* accustomed, nor is she comfortable with other people being in *her* business.  And since her business is her business (and not everyone else's), she has the final say on who is, and is not, in it.

You might give that some thought w/regard to your own family.  You are open - but do others want you in their business?  It's up to them and not you.[/quote]

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