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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think there's a LOT going on here. I wonder how much you did to help get Easter on the table. Was she doing the dishes and cleaning up while you took your nap? I'm not saying she's right, I'm saying I wonder what's her side of the story. You feel like a victim here, but maybe she has a different point of view. Maybe she puts her kids first, you second, and herself LAST and she's sick of it?

Marriage counseling. You guys need to communicate.[/quote]

Oh good grief, here we go with the woman is always right (and a victim) and the man is always wrong. You show up in pretty much every thread a man posts to make sure that you spout your misandry.[/quote]

First of all, I rarely respond to these types of posts, I was bored and stuck somewhere the other day, which is why I meandered into this one. So my post above was not a repeat offender post. Second, I explicitly said "I'm not saying she's right" because I wasn't there, how could I know who was right? I don't know, but there's always another side to the story and it's worth considering.

Op--even if your DW and her mom always clean up and shoo you away, try offering sincerely.  Instead of getting defensive immediately, ask her what's going through her head about the pie. 
My kids are younger but my dh and I always sort of save the best for the kids. It's mutual, though. And if he wanted pie I wouldn't tell him he couldn't.  That's why I think marriage counseling could help--communication is key key key to a good marriage. [/quote]

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