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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I may get shit for this but that's why I don't bring singl women into my home for extended periods of time (both literally and figuratively like OPs situation). A friend of mine was leaving her live in bf and asked if she could stay with us. NOPE. Not that I don't trust my husband but why invite potential problems? When will women learn not to involve other women that closely into their lives ... It's only normal for a single woman to develop feelings for a great father and husband when they spend so much time together - it's everything she wants and doesn't have. [/quote]

+1.  Honestly, I know of a lot of women who feel this way and I cannot say that I blame them.  Especially, in this ares there is a lot of [b]competition for "eligible" men[/b].  Hell, that is advice my grandmother gave me when I got married and she saw all my single bridesmaids.

I have a lot single girlfriends and we meet out or at my house when DH is not there.  And if one of them has fallen on hard times, I will give them my last nickel but they are not getting my spare bedroom. [/quote]

Once you are married, he isn't eligible any more.

If your husband loves you, he is faithful. A thousand naked, horny women could parade past and he will decline.

Since he is unavailable due to his devotion to you, you aren't in competition with the single women anymore.

If you think that you are still competing for him, there's a problem. And your single friend is not it.

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+1 I would hate to live such an insecure life as the PP[/quote]

I am one of the PP's.  LOL  I am not insecure at all.  I am just not like OP in that I am not going to allow my single mom friends to have unlimited access to my DH.  If we are all together, sure.  But I am not going to send my DH off alone like she did and frankly my DH would have refused to go.   [/quote]

Really?  It seems like you are implying that I somehow invited this to happen.  I had horrible strep throat, husband and kids were going to the playground, thought it would be nice to ask her to join them because it is a fairly regular weekend routine.  It would never, ever occur to me that in the course of a few afternoons without me at the playground, that my "friend" would decide she wanted to be with my husband and initiate a relationship with him. Never.  It is so bizarre to me that someone could think like that, and do that.  But thanks a bunch for blaming me for her totally inappropriate and unacceptable behavior.  [/quote]

Nope.  I did not blame you at all.  I just said that I would not have done it.  It was totally your friend's fault.  My point was while it is bizarre to you, it is not to me.  It actually happens a lot, so I would have nipped it.  [/quote]

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