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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] NP DH: I'm trying a similar approach, and it seems to be paying some modest dividends. It's hard not to be both cynical and ambivalent about marriage, though, having been through this type of experience and hearing similar accounts from many other men. Why work so hard to meet someone else's needs, when they so begrudgingly do the minimum possible to meet yours? [/quote] It's definitely hard. And, if you work long enough and hard enough, maybe you get to the point where you have to call it quits. But, these things tend to involve feedback loops and, if you're in a bad one, someone has to break the cycle and try to start a better one. And, if you're going to stay in the marriage, what are your options really? Improve yourself and maybe improve your marriage in the process. Or stay the same, watch your marriage deteriorate, and get more and more pissed as the months and years go by.[/quote]
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