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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you said "We can't easily change guardians because, despite these flaws, we don't see an alternative person whom we could trust with our kids."

Ok this is not on point with the original post question, but to answer the question behind this one…my DH and I have a crummy choice for guardianship of kids.  And our parents are ancient or dead, and unlikely to survive until our kids reach 18.

So, we do a couple of things that may help us survive until adulthood, or maybe just make us *think* we are increasing our chances.  If the whole family flies, we go together, but if it's just us adults, we take separate planes.  Also I do the driving if we are going out on a date night, and I don't drink that night and I drive extremely carefully.

Also when I'm getting out of shape, the thought of my own death by unhealthiness and my kids going to our lame-ass designees is enough to keep me running or stopping me from ordering the lasagna.

No doubt some folks will think all this is ridiculous.  However, what's important is both 
1) reducing anxiety by increasing a perception of control, as much as 
2) actually improving chances of survival. [/quote]

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