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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I may be in a similar place as you. We have a wonderful 14 week old. It took a major surgery, several other procedures and IVF to get her here. We are very grateful to have her. I would like to have another in an ideal world, but I don't think we can afford it. It does not help when I have people like my BIL's wife telling me that we new to have another so our child 'won't be miserable' like their only child; nice, right? I didn't get married until I was 36 and will be 39 in a month. Time and money are not on my side. I don't have any great advice for you. Just would like you to feel like you're not alone. I appreciate your post and all of the encouragement provided by the PPs. I'm going to try to take some of it to heart :).[/quote] Reading this thread because I'm in OP's same shoes. We've spent buckets of money and I don't know how much more I can justify. Even if you can get yourself moved along, it's the other people who bring you back, as in my mom's comments about my child learning how to play alone, or everytime someone asks me how many I have and I have to say "Just one." It's just so painful.[/quote]
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