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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]you all are avoiding the question

this is not a thread to discuss your perceptions of gender and slut vs stud

concrete number please

Phrased differently - if your daughter told you her number - what number would shock / disappoint you?

Don't avoid the question please -

GIVE #

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Numbers aren't what would shock me. It's the reasoning behind the numbers that would shock me. If she had no partners before marriage because she thought it would make her a slut, that would shock me. If she had 7 partners because she need male sexual attention to feel good about herself, that would shock me. And if she had 50 partners as a conscious part of her own sexual exploration, I'd be fine.

So, there you go. And ease back on the thread rules, OP. This is a discussion board, not your treehouse. You don't get to dictate the rules of the conversation. [/quote]

so 500 would be ok if she felt like she consciously wanted to explore 500 penises?

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Yes.

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I guess you would be proud.

You would be ok then too with her consciously choosing to be a porn star or a prostitute if she "consciously wanted to explore" it?

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Why would pride enter into my feelings about the number of partners she has? 0, 5, 500, whatever - pride implies that I have some personal stake in that number, and in the details of my dd's sex life. Like I would be proud of the number of positions she tries or the number of orgasms she has. That's just weird and creepy.

You seem to expect me to put a lot of stock in a single data point - the number of partners. I just don't. That number just doesn't matter to me as much as the reasoning. If my dd is mature and self aware to make strong and conscious choices about her sexuality, then THAT is what will make me proud.

As for being a porn star or prostitute, I would be much more likely to be concerned for her physical safety - both industries are notorious for not always practicing safe sex, and prostitution can (but not always) set up an unhealthy power dynamic if a pimp is involved. I'd want to know she is safe. But no, I wouldn't be worked up just because her chosen industry is sex-based. [/quote]

So much easier to say that in a hypothetical than in real life.

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Ok - thanks for your feedback.  [/quote]

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