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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I went through this OP.  With my eldest DD.  MIL would provide childcare in our home two days a week.  Once my DD turned 10 mos.  I was screamed at and told to go away when I got home from work.  She would look at me and say NO!!  And grab grandma and scream.  My MIL would just sit there and try not to giggle.  It was so annoying.  It got to the point that I resented my MIL.  I decided to start coming home from work early just to see what was going on.  MIL would either be holding DD and giving her candy or junk, or they would be playing with a brand new toy that grandma bought.  MIL just spoiled her the entire time I was at work.  I decided that MIL would not follow my rules and I needed her to watch my DD.  I just adjusted and realized that my DD still loved me.  Once I had my son, this behavior quickly stopped.  MIL was not able to just sit and hold DS all day.  She still had to bow to my DD's demands.  It was pretty funny.  MIL actually used to say that DS didn't love her because he didn't throw a fit when I got home.  I went on to have two more kids, and never did we have a meltdown when I got home.[/quote]

Who the heck are you? In return for FREE childcare you trash-talk to make yourself feel better about going to work?

My kid did the same thing at daycare pickup and I would never say the horrible things you've said about my caregivers.

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Where was there trash talking?  You have presumed a lot from a few lines.  And where did I say it was FREE?  I wish.  She was well paid.  And making myself feel better about going to work?  Two days a week isn't a hardship honey.  [b]My MIL is the one that should have been thanking me for letting her be with the kids. [/b] It isn't trash talking if what you are saying actually happened.  She gave my 10mo DD candy and other crap all day just so DD would prefer her to me.  I thought it was funny when MIL's behavior backfired on her.  [/quote]

OMG, yes! Why isn't she bowing at your feet daily? [/quote]

Not PP. No need for bowing at feet, but yeah, MILs are not entitled to spend time with their grandkids.[/quote]

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