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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, so she wants to be a stay at home wife. She probably resents you pushing so hard for her to work. If you want to be helpful, do 1/2 the housework, laundry, cooking, cleaning, shopping, and care taking while you are home. A babysitter will watch the kids but will not take care of all the little things. Oh, don't forget doctor and dental appointments, etc. too. [/quote] this is sarcasm right?[/quote] I think what PP is saying is, if DH is doing half the household work, then DW has no leg to stand on regarding unwillingness to work FT outside the home. If both parties are equally sharing the home responsibilities, both parties should also be WOHM. I don't think PP is suggesting he should do half the home work and ALSO be the only breadwinner. [/quote] if she isn't doing these things as SAHM now, i dont think there is any expectation that additional effort on H's part would affect a more positive outcome. seems like all that would do would be to increase his workload and set the stage for divorce [/quote]
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