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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hope you have lots of cash. Younger women don't really want to date YOU. 
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this is another of the standard responses of older women when confronted with a man dating a younger woman.  shame and lies.

younger women often times enjoy the company of an older wiser man simply for the company.

in my dating, i consistently date women 10-15 years younger than I am (late 30's) and I know the game well enough not to spend much money at all.

a 37 year old man who is established, confident, mature, sexy and in great shape is appealing to just about all demographics of women.

i've dated this range of women for years and have never ever had anyone even try to take advantage of me

in fact, its the women who have "fun" in their 20's who seek out the provider types when they finally reach their 30's and are "ready to settle down."

all code for done fucking studs and ready for a bank account[/quote]

Sorry, you're not very articulate. Are they using you for your bank account or because they like your company? You say they're seeking out the provider type, but yet claim they're not taking advantage of you.

They certainly aren't dating you for your writing skills.[/quote]

sorry you could't read through your anger.

girls in their 20's = fun times and company
women in their mid 30's and beyond = seeking provider
not the other way around

clear enough?[/quote]

by your own logic, by the time you hit your forties, those 10-15 years younger women will be married or looking to be so. so you, a rapidly aging bachelor with a stigma of failure (as seen from marriage bound women) will be competing with 20 and 30 year olds for fun, careless 20 something year olds that are not yet looking to get married. lets just say, it's a game you are not going to win.[/quote]

hardly.  a) 40-15= 25.  b) i've already cashed out my winnings - divorced and have kids.  c) ask 20 something girls what they think about 20 something "men" these days...its not favorable.  the ongoing feminization of the american male plus the poor economy has made it pretty hard for those sad boys to start acting like men.

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ok, you keep changing your story, and its is really unclear whether you are looking for a wife or just someone to sleep with. so i am really not going to comment on your constantly shifting case, except to note that, as someone who had very many options and got married in my mid 20s, I would never have considered a guy with kids or a guy more than 10 years older. in a way its a plus that at least you have been married, but kids are a big, nasty baggage and so is divorce. so one way or the other, you are not getting the first tier women except maybe for your ex wife.

moving on from your case, here are the facts: 1) you will age 2) men over 45 are largely considered unattractive (something like 40 yo women - they can look good yet they can no more be truly desirable) 3) women prefer men app. 5 years older, not 15 years older. I don't need to ask women what they think about men their age because others have done it already. there are loads of research on this, and the ideal partner for a woman is about 3-4 years older - that is what women, ideally, are looking for.[/quote]

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