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[quote=Anonymous]While Control is not a word I would use to indicate who is "The Decider", the fact remains that there is one or the other who is in "control".

[b]Person who wants it least; otherwise it's rape. [/b]

This implies that it is the wife who wants it least.  I doubt very few men risk being raped by their wives. If so, rape me.

My wife, will NOT initiate no matter what I do and it is frustrating to no end. I learned she was like this with her ex-husband as well. I am seriously considering bailing. I am tired of asking,  "can you come upstairs"? To be told, "in a minute" and the next morning finding her still on the couch.  We have money, the kids are grown and have a good life otherwise. But anyone who thinks that sex is not overly important in a relationship is really in need of a knock upside the head.

Why do I stay? I have stayed thus far because the cost to get out is staggering. And I find it as outrageous to demand sex or constantly ask, ask,  and ask as I do writing a check to cut her loose. Don't like my response? Dogpile me.  [/quote]

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