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Reply to "I'm thirty and worried about my future."
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[quote=Anonymous]I didn't read the whole thread, but here goes: When my best friend was in marital counselling (they eventually divorced) their therapist told them that one of the least advertised statistical indicators for divorce in a couple is when it takes them longer than 4 years to go from starting dating to marriage. Unless there are extenuating factors (couple start dating as kids in high school, long-distance, grave illness, etc.) couples who take longer than 4 years to marry are much more likely (I don't recall the specific percentage) than those who don't. The reason: simply put, if two grown adults in love cannot decide whether they want to marry each other, and commit to doing so, within 4 years, one or both of them is unsure about the decision. I've never been married, but this always stuck with me. [/quote]
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