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[quote=Anonymous]OP to 13:26: It's definitely not just me, and a matter of him not having effectively coped with all his issues. He has swept a lot under the rug and and it's all coming to a head now.

I do need a partner and not a whiner. I have already felt like a parental figure at times and have broken that habit, which shook things up but it has been a needed change. I have gotten mentally healthier and because of that, I could see what was truly lacking.

I am a loyal person and a monogamous one by nature. I had my share of fun innocent flings in college and my early 20s. it was great but I'm not looking for that anymore. I have had enough drama to last several lifetimes. I have since decided I want a partner who is a bit like me: sexy and interesting and passionate, but will not drag me into his unresolved issues. Looking back, it had been a pattern for me although some guys I cared for were more overtly malicious than others, they were all still emotionally stunted in some way. This was a recent revelation, and moving forward I'll be better off for recognizing this.[/quote]

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