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[quote=Anonymous]OP writing. To answer some of the questions, I totally agree that his feeling it wasn't warranted for me to set an ultimatum is ridiculous. His basic (stubborn and wrong) attitude was, no one does that and your doing that was weird. My response to that is that he put me in that position, so get bent (basically). Everyone else tells him to stop being an idiot and marry me including his best friend since childhood, who I am also close with, and he acknowledges it has taken too long BUT still is afraid of commitment. He has asked me to go with him to his therapist and I'm considering it but overwhelmingly my feeling is just, UGH! Because I've tried and given my all for so long.

We first met when we were in college, were briefly (four months, not seriously) involved, broke things off when he transferred schools. He and I both had other long term relationships. When those were over and we were in the same place again, he pursued me and I dated other guys at the same time. But we fell madly in love, and here I am seven years later. Major ups and downs, but as people have pointed out, we are both still in love. I just think I may have outgrown the relationship now. [/quote]

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