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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When you got married, how much did you really think about marrying into your spouse's family?

Were you happy about joining your spouse's family? Or did you just think that you can be married to your spouse without having to deal with his/her family? [/quote]

Didn't read the thread. Just wanted to post that I really ought to have thought about this, but I was in love, and figured they would be pushed into the background forever. Fast forward 20 years, and wow, they have poked into our lives in a number of miserable ways. Not saying i would not have married DH, but I wish I'd been more aware of how awful they are, and how much DH resembles them in some ways, which drive me completely crazee!!! I think I could have been spared some pain had I really taken a good look at them and DH and prepared myself for their worst traits appearing in DH, which they have. No, he's not nearly as awful as they are, but he's their son, and they raised him, so he's inherited some of their behaviors, try as he might to distance himself from them. Love does NOT overcome these things, so please take a good look at your future inlaws before getting married to let your self be forwarned about what you may be in for. [/quote]

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