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[quote=Anonymous]I felt like SHIT when I was pregnant.  I think we had sex twice the entire time.  I honestly didn't even want to be touched because even the slightest touch (especially in the first trimester) messed me up.  I was so sick that I was literally crawling into bed at night and praying for sleep so I didn't feel like vomiting every single second of the day.

I am not abnormal to not want to screw when I was struggling just to get out of bed every day for 9 months.

My sex drive sucks since having my child.  My husband hates it, and it has been a problem in our marriage, but I can't force myself to be in the mood.  Some of it is being uncomfortable with my body (I have ALWAYS had body image problems, and now that I actually do have some flaws...), some of it is just the daily grind of life, and I'll admit it - my husband has let himself go and isn't physically attractive to me anymore.  We had been trying for another baby for a couple years, so he was getting it at least a few times per month.  But it was out of necessity...and apparently we can't get pregnant the normal way anymore, anyway.  We're probably doing the deed once a week at best.

I have a friend who hasn't had sex with her husband since they were dating.  I don't understand it, personally, but she seems OK with their relationship.  In any other couple, I would say he was probably cheating, but this one?  No way.  Something is physically and/or mentally wrong with him when it comes to sex.[/quote]

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