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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is just analogous to a pre-nutpual agreement.  I would expect people who are on-board with PNA to be on-board with this.

Its just up to you how it sits in your mind.
I can see the IL's position.  I can see your position.
There is no right or wrong.  Just what is acceptable.[/quote]

Actually, this is more analogous to a [b]post-nup[/b].  I think it's insulting to OP in a way that a pre-nup would not be.  Their son married this woman, so now he is family and they need to get on board.  [/quote]

Except that it is not analogous, because a post-nup would be discussed and agreed by the spouses.  Here, the ILs are inserting themselves.  Way different.

Look, a person is entitled to treat an inheritance or other non-marital property as individual property and not marital property.  Whether or not you agree with it, a person is entitled to do so under the law.  But when ILs get involved and try to make those decisions for the couple, to me that is another story altogether.  Totally inappropriate.[/quote]

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