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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I've BTDT. To answer your question, yes, a good counselor will call your DH out on his behavior (all of it - the unilateral decision making, the unfairly directing anger at you and making threats, the refusal to communicate, the mooching off of mom and dad, etc.). However, the question is how will he respond? Does he have it in him to change? In my experience, when someone has gone this far down the road of not taking responsibility for his life and being enabled by his spouse and parents, its not likely he'll turn back. So the question for you is: Can you accept him as he is, not bringing in income and not doing full-time SAHD duties? And if not, then you need to leave.[/quote]
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