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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't get your beef with this at all.  They're family, they're visiting from someplace that is pretty far to travel from with the whole family for just a weekend.

If you don't like being with them, set up itineraries for sightseeing that they can do on their own.  If it's too hard for your child, continue sending her to camp for the day. 
 
If you don't like to cook, ask if they will help with the meal planning and cooking and keep the meals simple.

It's one week, not a multiple weeks.

Maybe this is a cultural thing to not be gracious to family visits.  I don't understand it and it would not fly AT ALL in my culture.

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I agree with this. I find it incredibly rude of op and others here to find sending them to a hotel and flatting out refusing their to host so rude. But then, you can take someone out of the ghetto but you can't take the ghetto out of people....[/quote]

+1. This is family not some random acquaintance.  My family, my father, both brothers and their wives and kids will be visiting and staying with us for a week for Christmas.  I'm very excited about the visit, my DH not so much but he is willing to be a gracious host b/c that's what he was taught growing up - to be gracious to one's guests.[/quote]

Did they call you and inform you that they were coming to your house for a week?  Or were you making holiday plans and this is what you all collectively decided?  I think there's a difference between what you're describing and what the OP has described.

I can't imagine planning a vacation and then inviting myself over to someone's home for an entire random week during the summer.  It's nice that you're so flexible with your house guests but I don't think it's rude if others aren't up for that.[/quote]

My dad called and informed me this was the plan.  Fine with me.  My father will be flying in from Asia.  He will be spending his time in the US staying with relatives and friends.  My mother passed away this year very unexpectedly.  They had been married for 50 yrs.  Very happy he's coming and my brothers and their families too.[/quote]

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