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The outcome: after much thought, I realized by anger/sadness truly came from the fact that
1)he was not up front about the strip club
2) he did not validate my feelings (insecurity, jealous) and/or try to make me feel better during our original conversation. 
3) I am beyond anxious about all the changes currently happening in our life and don't fell like he is on board or supportive in the ways a husband should be. 
Aka-we are not connecting.
Yesterday, he decided not to go to Vegas at all. Which just made me feel worse, because I am not controlling or needy. Historically, I am a damn cool wife! And I never want him to miss out on the opportunity to travel or hang out and make new memories with my soon to be brother in law. Hell, the thought of sitting in Vegas without two kids sounds amazing. So, he's on a plane as I type this. I realized that asking him not to go wouldn't do either of us any favors and would just create more resentment on his side. Hopefully this was the right choice?[/quote]

I was a PP, where one guy asked me if DW would "let me see my balls."  I wont dignify that...

But in response to your last post, you cant have it both ways.  Cherish that he is complying.  Not because you forced him, but because he knows to respect you more than the BS bachelor party.  Honestly, its a fucking marriage, not prison.  YOu dont need to buck wild there.  Anyway, your needs were valid.  all of them.  Husband needs to really man up and stand by her woman.

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