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[quote=Anonymous]I was once in a serious long-term relationship where I was not physically attracted to the man, but loved him and everything else about our relationship. It was so hard to finally break it off and I know that it must have hurt him far more than I can ever imagine (he married soon after and has a child; I also married soon after and have children). I am so, so glad that I didn't marry him. For a while, I worried that I could not have both sexual attraction and a functional, loving relationship with someone who respected me (even though I had had a relationship previously that fit both criteria). Then I met DH and our sexual attraction has been fine. Not blazing hot, but I am attracted to him and enjoy having sex with him, unlike my attraction-free relationship where it felt gross and incestuous to have sex with the guy even though I loved him as a person.

So I would say it depends on what you mean by bad sex. If you mean you aren't attracted to your DH (which from your posts it sounds like may be the case), I'm not sure that can be fixed. I was thinking bad sex meant that your DH had bad technique, which can be fixed.[/quote]

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