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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. As I said we do walk to the park, but not if its a 1.5 mile walk one way. Or if I need to run a time sensitive errand. H however is free to take any means of transportation if he is with the kid. He ends up carrying him for most of the way anyway; what's the difference with taking a stroller?

Anyway, I thought I was giving very neutral examples but people can't seem to agree on those and I think this is taking us away from the key issue.

Here's another example of when I let H have his way and how it all played out. He insisted DS did not like the Tylenol suspension and it needs to be given in pills. I ran and got the pills, of course DS refused to take them- with suspension I can at least make him take it in the syringe. And it is almost always the case. He wants to have his way in things he knows nothing about. [/quote]

In your first post, you say he is bordering on mentally abusive.  This example is far from that.  I'd love to hear your husband's side of things, because I suspect there is A LOT more going on than what you are saying.  Frankly, I was sympathetic to you at first, but now not so much.   [/quote]

These are all different examples to illustrate different things. Of course I did not think of divorce based on Tylenol argument. but yelling in the middle of the night, because a sick child wanted a night light?[/quote]

How did your husband even know about needing the nightlight? You went to your child's room and then went back to your room to get the nightlight and in the process of rummaging around DH woke up from the noise and asked you what you were doing...you told him you were trying to find a nightlight for DC and DH started to yell at you that you are coddling the child?

Is that what happened? [/quote]

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