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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Due to our religious beliefs, we don't use birth control...first 4 kids came VERY quickly...Dh is military and was deployed A LOT the first 8 years of our marriage, still we managed to have 4 kids in 6 years.

He's not a nice person when I am pregnant.   It's really bad, actually.   [b]So I've cut him off completely, sexually. [/b]  No more kids for us.  [/quote]

that makes me so sad. [/quote]

The part where I've cut him off makes you sad, not that he is abusive when I'm pregnant?   Strange....but I'm not going to continue to have sex with someone that won't treat me with respect when I am carrying his child.[/quote]

So he is only abusive when you are pregnant?  [/quote]

He has been abusive at many times but ALWAYS when I've been pregnant and in more scary ways.   The only time he actually ever physically struck me was when I was pregnant.   The other times it has been more verbal abuse/intimidation.[/quote]

Why didn't you stop at #1 or #2?[/quote]

I hope she isn't reading these posts. Why are so many people acting like jerks towards a woman whose husband is abusive?[/quote]

You know what you do when you have an abusive husband? YOU STOP HAVING CHILDREN WITH HIM. Right away. Not after 4 kids.[/quote]

People aren't being jerks. They are pointing out the obvious. THis woman is willingly bringing children into a home with a man that abuses her while pregnant and is "scary"--and uses religion as her excuse.  You realize that her kids will likely grow up to be abusers or in abusive relationships.   This woman is the ONLY protector of her children and she is failing them over and over and using her fucked up religious beliefs as the excuse. yes I said FUCKED UP RELIGIOUS beliefs.  Someone needs to talk some sense into this woman. I feel so sorry for your children.  What a miserable and joyless existance you are demonstrating for them.  [/quote]

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