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[quote=Anonymous]OP you have boundary issues. This is a horrible collision of a person who is controlling and doesn't understand boundaries and a self centered person. Is your sil a narcissist? You don't understand how inappropriate it is to try to *make* another adult do anything. It's her right to say no to anything you try to make her do. That also means you need to grow up enough to understand that she can't *make* you do anything. Don't drive her and give in to her schedule. You can offer to try to meet up with her but don't expect and week long family vacation/visit with someone who needs to go their own way. When she pulls away and wants to do something different, she gets to. She's an adult. She's a difficult adult but it's her choice. The rest of her family may enjoy giving in to her but you and your spouse don't have to. I think you are controlling and for some of us who grew up being controlled, we rebel against it when we can. [/quote]
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