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[quote=polychromatic][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who should control the frequency of a married couple's sex life?

1) The husband.
2) The wife
3) The one who wants sex most
4) The one who wants sex least
5) Other?[/quote]

I'm going to go out on a limb and say that neither partner "controls" sex. [/quote]

This. The couple should discuss it and figure out where both parties stand and how to make it work together. Revisit as needed if circumstances (health, other stressors) change.  [/quote]

Him: "I want sex."
Her: "I don't want sex."
Him: "I want sex because it's healthy and it's what married people do." 
Her: "I don't want sex because I don't feel sexy." 
Him: "You look sexy." 
Her: "Maybe if you did lots of chores, took me out, did a bunch of stuff I think needs done for the kids." 
Him: [Does stuff]
Her: "Hmm, nope, still don't want sex." 
Him: "I still want sex."

End result: He did a bunch of stuff she wanted done and they still didn't have sex. So the person who wants sex the least has an incredible amount of leverage. 
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Thanks for the laugh.  This is true until you call them on it, as which case you might not be getting sex, but you will at least be honest with each other.

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