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[quote=Anonymous]Well, it's too late now. I wish I knew how it was going to go back then because when it all started it looked very innocent - he realized he was getting nowhere and wanted to get an education. So he went back to school and struggled, but persevered, didn't give up. In reality though he just took the easy routes and didn't try very hard, didn't budget, was irresponsible with money. DH feels obligated to him because we didn't pay $50+K for his college education like other parents do for their kids. But he chose not to study. So yeah, we saved money, but I don't think we owe this money to him. And also, DH doesn't want to attach any strings to the money he gives because he feels it's controlling - pushing him to act or be a certain way. In my opinion, money loans do come with strings attached. It's like an investment. It's not a gift.[/quote]
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