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Reply to "Fair or not Fair??....You Decide!!"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But there is an easily quantifiable metric: it's called hours in a day. If one partner is working 80 hours and the other 40, then there is a fairness problem. Fairness matters a lot - if you feel taken advantage of, it is very hard to have a good relationship. It may not be healthy to keep detailed score if things are relatively balanced. But you are begging the question by assuming things are relatively balanced and that each party has the other's welfare in mind. Unfortunately that is not always the case.[/quote] Are all hours equal? To take an example from the book Walden Two is cleaning out a sewer the same as planting a garden? Obviously at home there are different tasks but surely the are not all equal and some are more desirable than others. Does economy of labor count? For instance if I can do a job in half the time my spouse does do I get credit for the time it would have take said spouse or the time I spend? [/quote]
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