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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I find it strange that my ex-partner loves his child but won't accept this other child, regardless of the state of our relationship. He is very angry with me for moving out but our counselor said it was imperative for our child's well being. [/quote] To him, the baby isn't "real" in the same why his older (living) child is real. He is probably protecting himself emotionally by refusing to consider the pregnancy as another child--much less HIS child, just like his first child (even if he knows it is his child, its easier for him to view the pregnancy as a difficult and inconvenient situation). Plus, he's angry with you and probably very hurt. Can't let himself feel that bond with another being right now. None of that is a pass for his abominable, immature behavior, nor does it guarantee he will ever come round to #2, but he might. You, however, have to make a decision based on being a single mom who can't count on that support. [/quote]
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