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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]14:01 thank you so much for your long and thoughtful a d informative post. I have a hard time imagining life with two kids as a single parent. I just figure people do it all the time and I am no wimp and it cannot be harder than dealing with this marriage. But your post is giving me a lot to consider.  I totally appreciate your thoughts.

I find it strange that my ex-partner loves his child but won't accept this other child, regardless of the state of our relationship. He is very angry with me for moving out but our counselor said it was imperative for our child's well being.[/quote]

It sounds like he is angry and trying to hurt you.  He probably knows your inclination is to continue the pregnancy and parent both children and is encouraging the abortion as a way to cause you pain.  If he loves and cares for your other child, I am hopful that will be that case once the new baby is born.

I have a co-worker who has been where you are and her boys are 5 & 8 now.  The father of the children has been little financial help but she makes it work.  Like you, she moved out while newly pregnant, he wanted her to have an abortion, she considered it and decided to have the baby.

You sound like someone who is strong (you are not a wimp!).  Do what is best for you and your children, you can't afford to waste emotional energy on your ex-partner.[/quote]

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