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[quote=Anonymous]Part of me is quietly rooting for OP, but the more she justifies her position, the less convincing it becomes, particularly with spousal deceit in the mix, not to mention the ominous allusion to "partaking." Just sounds like rationalizing a lot of destructive behavior, which gets harder to do the more you grow up. If you want to go there, you have to own it; seeking affirmation, especially here, is doomed. Maybe 20 years ago you could still pull it off, not to mention 50. Times have changed. Sure, secret smoking and "partaking" still seems charmingly roguish in "This is 40" or whatever, but modeling your behavior on the movies is perilous and silly, obviously. And it's one thing to explain to your kids why you smoked back in the day, but it's another to explain your pack of smokes they just found. Not to mention a joint. Unless you want to go all in and justify to them that this is all O.K. How's that for scandalous. [/quote]
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