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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, you sound very entitled.

I do not u der stand why you feel you deserve the ring more than your sister does.[/quote]

Because she wants it more, her grandmother promised it to her and it has very little monetary value anyways. Sister never wears the ring and doesn't care for it.

Why are you attacking OP? You sound like a failure in a family that always expects special treatment from the parents.[/quote]

If all that is true then the OP can just (politely!) ask her sister for the ring. If Sis says "no" then the OP needs to accept it and let it go.[/quote]

She asked for it and was ignored. Have you even read the thread? And she doesn't need to let anything go. Sure, she cannot do anything about the ring, but actions have consequences and she is well within her right to hold this against her sister and mother for as long as she pleases. I am sure I would.[/quote]

So the mom gave the sister the ring and now the sister is holding onto the ring just to tick the OP off.  Yet, the mom still EXPECTS the OP to support her in her old age?  How much sense does that even make?[/quote]

This is my life, btw, or going to be. My mom has been telling both sis and I for years what we are going to get when she dies yet I'm pretty sure none if it is in a will or even in writing anywhere. Sis will surely make a grab for everything as is the mo because she feels she deserves it because she thinks parents loved me more. Not jewelry in our case but some very valuable art and historical objects which I have studied and loved for decades versus sis who just sees $$.[/quote]

Can you ask your mom to please put all of this in writing so that when the time comes you can all be sure to honor her wishes?[/quote]

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