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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]These cases are just terrible b/c litigation takes time and the children involved in adoption/surogacy disputes don't have "time" to wait out the litigation. They are developing bonds everyday. It is terrible to see a child ripped away from the people they know as parents, but I lay the blame on the parent or party that changes his/her mind and then expects to get the child back when they have gotten THEIR life back in order. There's only ONE time to decide if you want the child --- and that's when he/she is BORN. After that -- it's too late. The child can't wait for you to figure out what you want or for you to go to rehab or for you to get married and settle down. Too late! The child needs to know who wants them on the DAY they are BORN. To me, that's all that matters. And the child is entitled to stability from that moment on. In the case of Baby Veronica, it is terrible that she will have to leave her current home. But, it is terrible that she was put there in the first place (with the bio dad who didn't initially want her). Despite the trauma that she will have to go through, I believe that Veronica belongs with the parents who wanted her from the moment she was born. Bio dad should not be allowed to assert his interest after he has stated his abandonment. Very sad, but it is the right outcome and Veronica will adjust.[/quote] This is nuts! So a woman who just gave birth And can possibly be medicated And is usually told NOT to make legal desciosns whe medicated should decide right then and there THAT IS DOMW DUMBASS SHIZNIT RIGHT THERE![/quote]
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