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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not about protecting my DD from a man I don't trust. It's about teaching her that no man should see her naked or feel the need to clean and dress her. Sorry I haven't kept abreast with responses. But yes I handle all baths and have more availability to. I don't know about you, but a 4/5 year old is very capable of taking a bath alone. Hair washing is the only issue, and yes I can handle that. My DH has no problem with this arrangement and does not find it strange at all. He grew up with 2 sisters and in his home dad was not involved in "girl issues" nor was the son expected to be. SO it is not alarming to him. It's the reality of our life and I am sorry that many of you don't understand it, and I am sure most of haven't been sexually abused either. I trust my husband, otherwise he wouldn't be my husband. And I told him about the events of molestation since we were dating. If you knew of the trauma someone has been through and couldn't adjust accordingly to ensure they are comfortable there is something more wrong with you than them. Spouses who truly care would want to accommodate the other. And sorry it is not my husband's burning desire to bathe and dress my DD that this is uncompromisable. That is laughable.

[b]I want to teach boundaries to my DD and future children, I believe nudity is a big one. I don't believe there is anything wrong with telling a female child that no man should see her naked or have to touch her when she is capable of doing it herself. Sorry if you have a problem with that.[/b][/quote]

Good for you OP. I have a similar history and I 100% agree. If she says don't touch me that way, he should listen. No matter what age she is, or if she's taking too long, or whatever.[/quote]

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