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[quote=Anonymous]You people, I cannot believe this thread. I know many of you have never dealt with child abuse, but to say "your crazy he is not molesting her" is just ignorant. I am not saying we should say "OP he is molesting her!" either. But to shut down a possibility based on your experiences or thoughts is very naive. I was molested when I was 4 by at my home daycare. I was sick and puked on myself, and a center worker found it a convenient opportunity to touch me while he changed me. My older sister luckily was aware of the situation enough to ask my mom about it, while I did not know what had happened. Fast forward I was molested by a cousin when I was 11 yo. I did not tell me parents about it until I was 17. During that time I never wanted to go to my aunt's house, I didn't want to visit, my parents did not listen to me ever! Thought I was just being a moody preteen etc. The only reason I ended up telling them was my dad and I were arguing and he said I was a bad daughter.. I retorted he was a horrible father and just blurted it all out.

Six years I felt like I couldn't say anything, 6 years I was put in uncomfortable situations and sleepovers and vacations. No one knew. Not a single sole. I said things like I just don't like him, he's mean etc. No one cared to ask why I felt the way I felt. It was my problem. I wasn't friendly.

OP please take it from me, let your daughter have a voice, let her know she has power over her body Let your DH know this is a serious issue. Be stern, follow your gut. I wished someone, (my parents, or anyone) would have paid attention at all the hints I dropped but was too afraid to say outwardly. And some of you should reflect too, and be sure the same things do not happen to your children. I am a parent now, I don't give two shits who thinks I am overprotective or paranoid, sexual abuse happens more times than we would like to believe, and I refuse to let my D or DD suffer through what I did.[/quote]

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