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[quote=Anonymous]I agree people need some financial freedom, and I know couples all do it differently. DH and I have a joint budget but each get an equal amount of "fun money" every month. We also have a joint "family obligations" line in our budget to pay for things like birthday and Xmas gifts for my nephews and DH's niece, birthdays for our parents, travel costs for family visits, etc. If my husband used his "fun money" to pay for his sister, tht would be fine, I guess. It would prob still annoy me if she cried poor like OP's SIL while splurging on private school, spas, etc. but DH and I don't comment on or audit each itger's fun money. OP's husband did much worse, I think. He didn't even tell her. They're not SO rich that thousands of dollars isn't significant. I guess it's hard for me to fathom a martiage where each side spends thousands without telling the other, but to each his/her own, I guess.[/quote]
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