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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am sorry you are going through this. Doesn't dc's school have any kind of policy in place regarding birthday parties? At our school, you can't exclude just a couple of kids. Either you invite just a couple, or the whole class, or all the boys/girls. If there is such a policy and the moms haven't complied, I'd raise it with the school. It's not about you, it's about your child. Also, I'd consider switching schools. Of course, your dc's education is the top concern, but the social dynamics are affecting them, and the social component is a huge part of school. Finally, I get your approach of turning the other cheek, but the fact is that "bullies" will often just be meaner in this kind of situation. If there is a specific mom who has excluded your dc, I would confront her. Be firm and direct, but calm. And tell her that it really doesn't matter how she feels about you, but you do not appreciate your child being excluded. Good luck.[/quote]
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