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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]My world hasn't imploded BTW. My kids are older and know what happened. They lived under the same roof and know what I went through. I was the one who decided to leave my husband and I told him of the affair. We have come up with a new life that works better for everyone so life does go on without all the drama.[/quote]

I doubt that seriously. I doubt it all went down smoothly.

One of my many friends who have imploded their world had a great job (big law) and did tons of volunteer work too. What she did not have is a life! She did not see inside herself. Everything was an extrinsict justification of her life. There is a great book that describes this "how to be good" it is fiction - and actually hilarious.

I am sure there was drama, and you should have left before the affair. I am not saying don't get divorced. I am saying don't have an affair.

I am sorry your H sucked. I am sure you could have moved onto "life does go on" a little more smoothly without the affair.

I know hindsight is a little blind.

I believe in redemption, I just don't believe in not learning from your mistakes and encouraging others to make them.[/quote]

Agree there must have been drama. Also, what a crap thing to tell your children: I cheated on your dad before we got divorced. Ask any psychologist how that sort of knowledge affects children (of all ages). It's not good.

This story is so selfish and destructive, all around.

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